Designing a passionate life consists of a number of behaviors from minute to minute, from hour to hour and day to day. Your entire day is made up of how you act and respond to different situations. Your life is made up of behaviors. Are you consciously choosing your behaviors throughout the day or reacting without thought? How do you want your behaviors to feel?
If you want your behaviors to give you a sense of peace, then start by noticing them. How would you respond in some of the following examples?
If a driver cuts you off on the road, how do you behave? Do you rant and rave, or simply wonder why that person is in such a hurry? Which would give you more peace?
How do you listen to your spouse? Are you defensive or do you listen with an open heart and mind? Which would give you more peace?
When a co-worker makes a mistake, do you huff and puff or simply point out the mistake and suggest a solution? Which would give you more peace?
What if a good friend lets you down? Do you get angry, pout and refuse to talk to them until they apologize or do you explain to them how you feel as a result of this and ask him or her to explain? Which would give you more peace?
Reacting with anger, frustration, and annoyance drains you of energy and leaves you feeling hollow. Connect with your inner wisdom and ask for guidance in your response to different scenarios as they arise throughout the day. You may surprise yourself. I know that you will save a lot of energy by choosing to behave differently. Don't take my word for it, try it and see how you feel.
I would love to hear the results of those of you who give this a try. Please feel free to comment on this post after you try it.
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